| Maybe you two should try sitting down and talking about it. Explain to her that both of you had hard situations as kids and that you would try to keep everything as nice and easy as possible for your son. It totally sucks when divorce happens because the children think that it is their fault but at least he is not old enough to understand it very well. Just tell her that you want to do all of this as civil as possible cause you don't want your son to go through all the stuff you did as a child. If you don't want her to move away maybe you should tell her that you would like to be in your sons life as much as possible. And just because she is the mother does not mean that she has the upper hand. If they think that she is unfit then you will get custody. Maybe you should go to court about custody and try to get full custody.Hope your situation gets better! |