| I don't think it's rude, it's YOUR wedding...probably most people would tell you to do things your way in every other aspect. You might have guests talk negatively about it, but guess what, they will get over it! You have good reasons for not wanting such a huge guest list, that is so expensive. My advice to you is send them an invitation, but be clear that they won't be receiving dinner. A way to do this is to say
"Please join us for "drinks" "Hors d' Oeuvers" etc. Let them know in your subtle way that you won't be having a fancy dinner. Also, schedule the dancing part for a time that isn't around any normal times. Like 6:00 is a dinner time...either schedule it early enough that they eat, or late enough.
You could provide light snacks that are cheap for people to munch on all night and some cheap soda! Hope this helps!
Good luck. |