| Tough spot...sorry about that. But he was honest with you and unfortunately it seems he wants to go through with a divorce. He mentioned that he never wanted kids, are you sure you are the one with the inability to conceive? Only asking because it's possible he could have had a vasectomy and just not told you. But, regardless, your mental and emotional state right now is telling you that you want him back because of the history between you two and because it's comfortable...but he has chosen otherwise. Suggest you give him his space... you can't make someone love you if they don't...and it may be easier to accept the reality of the situation and bow out gracefully. You've tried with suggesting counseling, and he countered the offer by suggesting you two don't have kids. This I see is very important to you, and in some ways, he wants you to fulfill that dream of having children...just not with him.
Ultimately, the decision may come easy or hard, and his depression could have a lot to do with it. But no one will know that for sure. I say again, you can't make someone love you if they don't... this may very well be the case, but only your husband can truthfully answer that question. Good luck~  |