| Just remember that nothing is permanent in this world. The pain u feel shall pass. I know 2 success stories of divorce at work. Both women had a tough time divorcing their hubby's. They were married for 6-7 yrs .. lived in an abusive marriage .. but since they loved their hubbies they found it hard to leave. After they did leave, they swore never to marry again. Both had kids. Anyways, within a yr or 2 they met the men of their dreams and are now happily married for about 20 yrs. Their words of advice to me was:" Remember happiness in a relationship IS possible". Separating from your hubby was the first correct step you have taken towards attaining the happiness you deserve in your life. Also your child WILL be fine... as long as you are happy. It will be hard for you .. so do go for counselling. That would be your second step towards healing and happiness. Good luck. |