[the*cellphone*chik]

First off before my husband, I only had one boyfriend, my first love, my first everything, well I was with him for 5 years and he ended up cheating on me left and right. So now I have trust issues, not to mention, this guy (my ex) when i dumped him and started dating my husband, kidnapped me at gun point, so my trust is gone. I always think my husband is lying to me, i don't know why, i don't really have any reason to think this way, a couple of times i have caught him looking at porn, and to me this is a big issue, i don't find it fun to catch my husband masturbating and looking at porn at the same time, i've confronted him bout it but he just finds a new way to be sneaky about it, he says it has nothing to do with me, that it's just something he does. Well this has messed up my trust on him a little more, i've been trying to work on it, but the arguments just arise on random and stupid stuff. I know he loves me, but we argue too much.What do I do, i don't want to endup in a divorce
i am also very jealous, sometimes he gives me reasons to be, but most of the time it's just me, don't get me wrong, we are happy too but we argue 2 or 3 times out of the week, a couple of days ago he was determined to leave and there was nothing that could change his mind, finally he decided to stay, that is why i'm asking for ya'lls help, i don't want to lose him, he's good to me and i'm good to him too, i am a very dedicated wife and mom. I guess if there is any advice in controlling jealousy. I guess one of the reasons why there is really no trust is the porn, and most of his friends are married and having affairs on the side or single and just playing the field.