| Well i mean i have seen that a lot relationships break up for no good reason at all is mostly oh we argued too much, we didnt agreed this and that is all stupid stuff, dont become a statistic cause you can't control yourself, you can change just be determined not everything we feel as to be expressed to our partner like jeolousy, it makes you seem very insecure so try and maybe just talk about it with a close friend or write about it, a lot of poeple live their lifes control by something in their past like trust or revenge or trauma, i know is hard when bad things happen but you cant let your past rule the rest of your life, you learned you try and be more carefull but thats it you move on and you give people the same chances one person doesn't have to pay for another's mistake if you say your husband is good to you and he cares for you and you for him don't let that go cuase you cant control yourself is really sad, other than that try to be more understanding men are very different from woman they get tired of being accused of doing things like cheating when they arent doing it so you might push him to actually do it, just communicate with him and trust him as much as you can also about the porn is true most guys are into it but hey maybe if you step up to doing more things for him he might not need it just cause you are married and you have him doesnt mean is over you still need to keep the flame alive try and dress up all the time do your hair, have sex as much as you can and he wont need to look for anyone else trust me, good luck  |