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Old 03-26-2008, 04:43 PM
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I have been a single mum for eight years but have now met my Mr Right so i can advise you with this.

You will be fine. It is important for her that you are ok with her bringing her child. Dont worry about whether or not the kid will like you, just be yourself. if you act too keen and pay too much attention to the child, it will take advantage!! Remember, she will be able to control her child and that leaves you free to talk to her as well as the kid.

In fact, a date with your kid can be a good way to break the ice and have a "nasty silence" free date! Kids are funny and will make you both laugh.

She will be aware that it is putting you under some added pressure and she will be all the more grateful to you and impressed that you take them both out.

Good luck and i hope it all works out for you, oh, and that his name isnt damian! (just kidding lol)
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