| The bigger question is . . . what are you doing to constantly attract needy people? Are you the motherly type? There's always a reason why. I used to feel that way too & I realized I was giving WAY too much attention to everyone else, and not thinking of myself so much. Good for you for learning. Just step back a bit. People get the hint. Don't make yourself so available. I would just tell people that I really don't have time to talk & I'll call ya tomorrow. And then I wouldn't call. They always find another sucker. Trust me. |