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I am very sorry to hear that.. if that is true you are not a pervert. It is normal to want to experience love...that does not make you perverted but if he doesn't feel the same.. as you do.. you can't really say to him .. I want to have sex before I die because even if your wish is perfectly sane and normal that would put him under stress and he would think this is emotional blackmail.. my good friend is dying.. I feel obliged to fulfill his maybe last request.. that would not be right.. not the right circumstances.. love is a gift.. it has to be given freely.. and sex without love is not really that great..you need mutual respect and mutual trust .. but if you use your illness as an excuse to ask.. that puts people under pressure they feel blackmailed even if your wish is understandable to me..
Take care.. I believe in eternal life of our souls...xx be friends with him.. but don't ask him for that. .. a friendship is more valuable and a greater gift than experiencing sex.... xxx
Hugs xxx
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