| Well, there are so many reasons people like her won't confront someone they hate and they are pretending to, first is either they are hypocrites, cowards or either they are very confuse and imbalance. You Friend, if you call such a person a friend is someone you should stay away from because she might also hate you and still be talking to you. Beside storing up resentments, is a sure way of developing cancer and depressive feelings. She's sowing a seed that she will reap with enormous price to her health.
If you want to help her, then tell her to her face that what she's doing is plain wrong and don't be afraid to do it if not you might be one degree almost like her. Tell her to borrow the courage of telling that person she's pretending to off and get it over with. She might end up not liking you and not even telling you about it but what the heck do you have to lose, after all you've seen her in action and you know who she is. |