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GIRL it seems like you have a hard time being straight up with anybody especially your friend's. 1st of all ask yourself what are you afraid of. 2nd ask yourself what you think her response would be if you told her. Ok. Here are several solutions. #1, let 1 of your other friends, who you know ain't afraid to tell anybody anything, to tell her that she needs to make sure she haves a baby sitter cause this is an adult party. #2, tell a lie,EXAMPLE: tell her that your kids will be with your mom, so it wouldn't make sense to bring her kids cause who will watch them and how can she have fun if she's tending to the kids. #3, tell her how you feel about her parenting skills and let her know how it makes you feel when she let you do all the work as if she's not caring at all what her kids do over other people's homes. If you really like her and want to continue to be her friend, the truth from YOU to HER will set you free from this issue that you seem like you've had with her for quite some time now. AND if she's a true friend , she wouldn't get offended or be on the defense when you approach her in a NICE RESPECTABLE WAY. YOU FEEL ME.Cause if she do , then you have to make a decision.
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