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Old 04-28-2008, 12:56 PM
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Would this be a deal breaker in a marriage for you? (Husbands mainly)?

A divorced man marries into a blended family with another divorcee who has 2 kids. As the 2 children age, one of them becomes a huge problem - gets into drugs, steals, lies, etc. They overcome most of the issues there, but now druggie kid is 20 years old, has no job, doesn't go to school, gets drunk, brings strange people to the house, and stays at their house. Mom enables him and lets him get away with murder. Husband is pissed because rules are constantly broken and there is no unity between he and the wife as she always lets the son go back to his ways.

Wife is also a cold fish. She never gives affection or sex - and refuses to seek help for it. Just tells husband she's not in the mood, she's too old (she's mid 40s), and her overall attitude is "tough luck!" when it comes to sex.

They've been married for 10 years. Should husband get a divorce?
The wife refuses counseling for the sex issue.
Hound: I have nothing to do with this scenario, don't even go there.
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