| um first off you just go off and elope because he joined the military then you are stupid and thats why the military has such a high divorce rate its because highschool sweethearts decide to get married and then they get a taste of real freedom and go nuts, if you really love this guy and he loves you then there is no need to rush anything. you will be able to live together on or off base if you are married but most likely you cant if you arent married but dont make that the deciding factor |