| I'm invited to the shower but not the wedding?
Technically, you are right about it being bad form for a bride to invite people to the shower but not the wedding. However, since she is doing a destination wedding, perhaps this is her way of making people feel included even though they can't attend the actual ceremony. If she is not a good friend of yours, though, I would just make my excuses and send a negative RSVP for the shower. No sense spending money on a gift for someone whose invitation motives you don't trust.
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