| not "lazy" but "tired", tired of trying to work out, tired of making self more fraustrated than already it is, and even thou theres child involved that doesnt mean that the marriage has to stay together, would you be happy if you r in the unhappy relationship knowing that you already done everything you could but you just cant have the relationship you used to be? some married couple they do keep stay together after a long unhappy marriage, not becuz of the kids but becuz they just have no other choices, so the couple will do their own things, and even do things behind each others back and still look like they are in the happy marriage....do you see oddness? i think if you r not happy with it, and you have tried everything to work out and still nothin works then maybe its time to let go instead of make it worse...the thing is you always have a choice to make "youself "happy..and for the kids sometime it is better to see the true happiness of the parent instead of see them fight and not talking to each other in one house  |