| My love of over 2 years told me he had been lying to me and he wants a break?
Your problems started when you confused dating with marriage. You leave the sex and stuff out of it and get to really know a person and then you either become engaged or move on.Had you left the sex out of it you would have a clear head to ask the important questions. And you know he is a liar. You know you two don't get along, move on. Dating is when you find out if you are compatible with someone so you can being life with them in marriage. Not so you can smother each other and act like a couple and sex it up.Why do you think so many relationships don't work out? People don't grasp the concept of dating. They want to have instant bonds with people and leave common sense on the door step as they leave for their date.You two have a horrible relationship and you are going to waste even more time trying to make it something it isn't because you cannot even see the light of day through the black cloud of fantasy you placed over this relationship.You get what you give. If you want a man who treats you with respect and is truthful you have to accept no less. Once you take this slob back, he knows he can basically do as he pleases and you will take him back. Which sets you up for more pain.Use your brain when you plan your life as well as your heart. If you ever hope to find someone worthy of marriage and children and a life time together.
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