| What Should I Do?
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and we have 2 kids. In the past year or so I have noticed that our relationship has fallen apart and we are living like roommates so to speak. Years ago he caught me in an uncomprimising position (there was no affair going on but my boss and I were getting a little too close). We decided to move on with our relationship. Now 6 yrs later I find him in a situation (text messages in his phone from a girl he met and it seems they were getting pretty close). When I confront him about it he goes back to the situation with my boss and it seems as though he never got over that. He also talks about how he gets no attention at home and dealing with this girl made him feel good. Things between us have been so distant I don't have the feelings to show him that affection. We love eachother and we want to be together (we have a great family relationship as far as the kids are concerned) but these issues are tearing us apart. What do we do?
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