| Father demands respect from all six daughters boyfriends. Is he too strict? Should wife divorce him for rules?
This man is trying to keep the eggs in the shell and it isn't a healthy thing...people I'll say adults because all the girls are...they need to experience life for themselves on their own time and in their own way...this isn't living at all it is walking on eggshells and not using ones own wisdom and learning to handle situations on their own....this man needs to get another hobby to focus on...I realize this man loves his family alot and is trying to do what he feels is protecting them but in essence he is robbing them of life....something they will hold against him when they get older....it is like a prison so to speak....he obviously doesn't trust his daughters and is trying to pen them in until he feels they are able to handle life on their own...I personally think they should be living on their own anyways...He can't make up rules for another person he can only live by his rules he set up for himself...as for the wife she feels trapped because the father supports the family and she is in no position to make any decisions....the poor lady I think it is horrible that she is under his thumb too...this isn't a healthy way for the girls to view what it is like to be married or raise a family...more than likely what will happen is one or more of the girls will run away from this commune and do all the things the dad is trying to "protect" them from....I am speaking from experience........
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