ever since my son was born we noticed that he had a very much stubborn personality. he would cry sooo much neither of us could do the things we needed to get done like cleaning the house. we asked the doctor because we thought it could have been colic or a milk allergy. she diagnosed him with the possibilty of milk allergy. so we switched to soy. he did get better but he would still throw fits...up untill today age 13 months old. but now it gets so bad it happens all of the time now. he will deliberitly do things he knows he cant do and then he will scream and kick his leggs like a 3 year old. when i give him food and it accidently falls he thinks i took it from him and he backs away from me untill hes in another room in the corner. i have never yelled at him or done anything to make him scared of me. and i punish him the right way like all of the books tell me to. tell him no calmly and give him somthing hes allowed to have. he knows what "no" means but he pushes his limit very far.he really acts like a 3-5 year old kid!!! no joke! we are actually thinking it might be a form of autisim. it does run in my family. i seriuosly need help but i dont know where to go or what to do. anyone have similar problems? please help give me your input
thanks!!!