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Since you have suggested these problems have been occurring long before he was one and therefore before a child is typical aware of the ability to be "defiant" I would certainly look into possible medical issues, if anything, only to rule them out. A child that is 13 months old should not be experiencing any type of behavioral problems.I would keep a log of his behaviors and concerns and bring them to your family physician. It is important to have it written down because this is no doubt an emotional issue for you and has caused you much pain and frustration. When you have it written in front of you, you can make sure not to forget important things. I would also keep a journal for a week or so of his eating patterns, meals, and sleep patterns. Good for you for seeking out help for your little one. If it is something like autism or some other medial condition, this surely cannot be enjoyable for him also. Good luck