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Old 05-15-2008, 09:35 PM
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Tonight I found out I was the OTHER guy?

I don't think you should be dating a girl who's already dating another guy. That's unfair to the other guy, and unless you really like this girl and think the relationship you start with her is gonna last... don't do it. It's just going to hurt people for no reason. Also, she's obviously just playing you and using you as a "backup" for when her boyfriend isn't there. Don't let yourself be the "other guy". You deserve better than that. But just don't make any concrete decisions until you've talked to her about it and asked her about her boyfriend. Don't go out with her unless she's willing to break up with her boyfriend because otherwise, you're clearly just a backup.Plus, do you really even wanna go out with a girl who's capable of cheating on her boyfriend? I know I wouldn't want to go out with a guy who's cheated on his girlfriend for me. If he's done it to her, what makes me think he can't do it to me?Oh well... hope that helped >< Sorry for the super long answer...
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