| Husbands relationship with mother is not well-help?
My husband does not get along with his mother for good reasons (see my other question about divoricing inlaws in marriage and divorce...pretty much she can't tell when she is lying...she lies (1/2 truths) all the time to make herself look better).But I still talk with her. I ask him to call her on mothers day, her birthday and other holidays, but he won't..First: Would I be a bad daughter in law if I stopped calling her?and What do I say to my mom-in-law when she asks ....1. If she can talk to my husband (I call when he isn't around, but sometimes she calls me when he is home)2. Why he is avoiding her3. What she can do to improve their relationship (her relationship with my husband). I noramlly tell her to just leave him be.She is a nice women, but is very munipulating and my husband is tired of dealing with her and walking on egg shells around her. Also He won't talk to me about her either. I try to bring it up and he just won't. ANy suggestions?
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