| Friend help, please help me out, how should I have handled the situation today, what should I do now?
You did the right thing.. when you met her.. she was with someone else.. it may be her BF.. I can understand you were stressed and shocked by your mom's death but this girl was there for you then..... this could have grown into a great friendship then... but you turned away from her and you acted in front of your friends and in front of her as if she didn't really mean much to her.. so you did wrong in the past... if she did mean something to you.....All you can do now.. if you know her name.. look up her phone number and phone her and say sorry about the past and just ask her how she is doing... and say how much you appreciated what she did in the past for you when you felt down after your mom's death and that you are sorry you did respond in the wrong way at the time.... and you can ask her if there is a possibility that you can be friends again.... then she will anwer you honestly.. and if she is with this other guy... you need to accept it.. and wish her best of luck.. but you don't know who he is... he may be a BF or he may be just a friend.. or a relative.. so you should talk to her and also apologize for the past and to thank her for having been there for you.. and ask her if she is alright and if there is anything ever you can do to help her to let you know.... try to find out the phone number if you know the name and where she lives you should be able to get it....if she lives in the same town.. there cannot be that many people with her name...xx
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