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Well, you will soon be able to tell who wants to be asked. It's easy to get trapped into thinking you have to ask everyone. Originally, I only had a MOH & my fiance had his twin Brother as best man. Then, his twin's wife started acting weird about the wedding so I felt pressured to ask her. Now she's happy but I have 2 people and my fiance has one. Then, I was talking to my best friend of 20 yrs (male) and now he's acting weird too when I mention the wedding and I know he wants to be asked as well. Don't let yourself get stuck in that. Somebody is always going to feel left out, no matter what and you can't (well, I guess you could) end up with 10 bridesmaids. It's a nightmare. And the more girls you have, the more trouble you're in with picking dresses. Somebody will inevitably hate the color you chose or hate the dress, etc. I say the fewer the better and they should be people that you trust and are easy to get along with.
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