| It all sounds okay, but you have to look past the love for a second. How much older is she? When you get to a much riper age will she hit retirement before you? Of course and her age will determine how healthy she is. My in-laws are a good example the man is 16 years older and he should be in a nursing home and the woman is bouncing off the walls because she has to care for him. Now, ultimately she loves him but I am sure when she wed him that she didn't see in advance his health failing him. So, you need to take a step back and access the situation if this is what you want go for it if not shack and have a good time for a while. Then you can move on without any ill feelings. |