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Even though you know this guy and know there is no attraction, your husband doesn’t know him. He has every right to feel uncomfortable.
What you need to do is introduce this guy to your husband in a social setting. That way he can see how you interact and see that there is nothing going on. Then when you say I’m meeting John Doe to study, he knows who you are talking about and is cool with it.
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I can’t believe people are saying that it is ok to have a study friend but not go jogging. Maybe I’m just modern but what do they think is going to happen? You don’t fall in love with him while studying but the sweat from his forehead while jogging is going to make you fall deep in love? Please. I had study buddies that were also male (some female). We would go grab starbucks during breaks in class while we were not studying. I did that for the seven years of school (undergrad and grad) and never cheated or had anyone express interest.
If you can't trust yourself enough to go jogging with someone and not cheat or cross lines then you are WAY too immature to be in a relationship to begin with.
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