Fiance wants to join the air force, what now?

[ewwitsd]

What would happen to me and my son? What happens if he is accepted? I want details on everything, please

[Lindsey M]

If he gets accepted, he will go to basic training, and then techschool. Depending on where the tech school is is where he will go. Basic training is in Texas. After tech school he will get his perminant duty station where he will have to live in dorms until he's a senior airman, and then he will be able to move off base. If he's married he will recieve a base house for you and your son, or if you decide to love off base he will recieve BAH(basic housing allowence), it's a sent rate depending on where you live. You personally will recieve nothing from home until you two are married, and then after you will recieve the military benefits, and a military ID, so you can get on base, and able to recieve the benefits such as medical, the bx, and the comissary.

So if your not married the military isn't going to give him any benefits for you. He would be going to basic of course with out you, but depending on how long the tech school is if you were married to him you would be able to go to the tech school with him.

So it's your choice if and when you want to get married.

[nth_iq]

get married before he starts basic, that way, you and your son will have free medical, dental & vision.

also, he'll get paid more because of you and your son, you'll also get money to cover 80% of the average cost of living for you zip code,

plus about 200-300$ a month for you alone, as a sort of a 'thanks for letting him come work with us' gift - which you'll only get while he's in basic & ait(ait is training for his real job in the military)

for anything else, just drop me a line

[John S]

make sure you get married before he goes so that once he is stationed somewhere you both can join him. you will be moved by the Air Force with no expence to you.

[laughter_every_day]

I am sorry but I cannot possibly know every single variable that might affect you in the future. Neither can anyone else. If you could try to be a bit more specific about your concerns for the future, someone might have some reasonable guesses.

[rec]

well he'll go to basic training, schools, etc.
you and your son will be exactly the same as before, just your fiance will be in the air force and you might get better benefits.
you'll probably move too.