Good MAtch?-- [Cancer moon/Gemini Moon]?

[smrh20]

I am a

SunCancer 9.05 AscendantTaurus 4.02
MoonGemini28.12
Venus :Leo
Mars: Gemini R
UranusScorpio26.32 R
NeptuneSagittarius23.03 R
PlutoLibra21.33 R
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Sun :Virgo /ASC: Virgo Moon in Cancer 23.21
Venus: Libra
Mars :Capricorn
Jupiter :Pisces [R]
NeptuneCapricorn [R]

are we a good match? Great? lasting?
Also
What do the Retrogrades mean? Those that are listed

What are the aspects that show a long lasting relationship?
it is Saturn?
What are bad aspects of dilution by Neptune?

PLEASE do not copy and paste from online
10 points for best answer

[neptunerising]

A Cancer Moon and a Gemini Moon is a "difficult" match.

No pairings are impossible, this is just one that will require more effort and understanding.

Cancer is easily hurt, loving to nurture, and very emotional while the Gemini is more distant and needing space, more detached.
You make think she doesn't care as much as you do when in fact she just has a different way of expressing it. She may see you as smothering and you need to control that.

With your Venus in Leo and hers in Libra there are some similarities such as both of you loving being in love but yours being the Leo is more concerned with you while she is more concerned with the both of you. The problem can come from her need of fairness and equality, you would need to work on not being so self centered in a relationship while she could work on not thinking in terms of every little thing being fair.

The aspects that are important when you do a relationship chart (which I think can be totally useless for the most part) would be the aspects between each other's Sun and Moon, The Venus aspects with Mars, and also the same planet, you know, Venus to Venus, Mars to Mars, etc.

When a planet is retrograde is means it's the time when it "appears" to stop and then orbit in the opposite direction. If you have the R next to a planet, you were born when that planet was in retrograde and it is said that when the planet goes retrograde, you are affected differently, sometimes you are affected greater by it and sometimes when everyone else is having "issues" because of the retrograde, you are just fine. Like when Mercury went retrograde just a bit ago, communications were all messy, things like sending someone a message and them not getting it, or it increased the chance that misunderstanding would happen like a conversation that normally would go smoothly would end up in an argument because of miscommunication.

[hsu_mi]

Well, you look good on paper. How do you get along in person? Do you love and respect each other? Do you have common goal and a similar outlook on life? No one can tell you how long you're going to last. You may not make it through the next month and on the other hand, you may be together for many years. It's all up to how you interact, not how you look on paper...on in a horoscope.

If your astrological compatibility is that important to you, sit down with her, show her the details and you 2 discuss what you're looking for in the future with each other (and without). Once you lay out your individual life plans and see how they fit together, you'll have a better idea how you're look in the future. Good Luck