any cancer girl/scorpio boy experiences?

[¤Amanda¤]

please share. thank you=)

[seaarcane]

They're really a great match.

Well, my little bro's a scorpio boy and I'm a cancer girl, and we get on great. Any water signs match up well, or at least get along tolerably.

The only advice I can give from the sibling or friendly perspective is..... let him have his space. You'll want to have your own as well. he may let you in when he feels like it, but if you get "leave me alone" vibes leave him be for a while. He'll come around, for sure. Same advice from him, except you as a Cancer may not give off any advanced warning of alone-time, and it may catch him off guard, but not too badly.

The biggest problem is emotional. If he's happy and you're down, one of you will have to comprimise, and it may be the Scorpio, which can possibly cause an imbalance. I'm a cancer dating a cancer, so we learn to balance moods really well, but with my bro it's different. Scorpio will involve himself obsessively in a loved person's moods, wonder endlessly about how to fix it, but may not show it directly or even end up doing anything at all - which makes them feel useless because they want to care but don't always know how to show it. It'll be up to you to talk about your emotions, especially problems, openly. And if Scorpio cares deeply for a family member or a friend, then be prepared to really listen and give advice. They'll know if you're only half involved in a conversation.

In watching my brother date, I can see how girls may be turned off by that whole "paranoid jealousy" issue. That's just their way of showing that they care. If you're honest and loyal, they'll still show concern, so take it as a sign that they really care. I've seen my bro cry over girls that leave him. It's a harmless trait, really. It just looks a little creepy to most people. A cancer should be able to understand that sort of clingy paranoia, though.

Hope that was insightful in some way! Best of luck.

[seaarcane]

They're really a great match.

Well, my little bro's a scorpio boy and I'm a cancer girl, and we get on great. Any water signs match up well, or at least get along tolerably.

The only advice I can give from the sibling or friendly perspective is..... let him have his space. You'll want to have your own as well. he may let you in when he feels like it, but if you get "leave me alone" vibes leave him be for a while. He'll come around, for sure. Same advice from him, except you as a Cancer may not give off any advanced warning of alone-time, and it may catch him off guard, but not too badly.

The biggest problem is emotional. If he's happy and you're down, one of you will have to comprimise, and it may be the Scorpio, which can possibly cause an imbalance. I'm a cancer dating a cancer, so we learn to balance moods really well, but with my bro it's different. Scorpio will involve himself obsessively in a loved person's moods, wonder endlessly about how to fix it, but may not show it directly or even end up doing anything at all - which makes them feel useless because they want to care but don't always know how to show it. It'll be up to you to talk about your emotions, especially problems, openly. And if Scorpio cares deeply for a family member or a friend, then be prepared to really listen and give advice. They'll know if you're only half involved in a conversation.

In watching my brother date, I can see how girls may be turned off by that whole "paranoid jealousy" issue. That's just their way of showing that they care. If you're honest and loyal, they'll still show concern, so take it as a sign that they really care. I've seen my bro cry over girls that leave him. It's a harmless trait, really. It just looks a little creepy to most people. A cancer should be able to understand that sort of clingy paranoia, though.

Hope that was insightful in some way! Best of luck.

[meme]

whoa...watch out for those Scorpios...

[sylvia l]

its perfect combination
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[remmuh]

long story cut short. known a few. liked one. loved one. father was one. a spectrum from terrible to great. and a word of advice, get a matured one, it will make it at least (if not, usually more), worthwhile.

[Medius]

-Raises hands high up-

ME!!!!!!!

-Ahem-

Ok, this was when I don't even know what was going on and to make things easier, I was BLIND. XD

So all these while, he was hinting, telling me in ways that he likes me but I never saw that coming. Instead I was so blind that I actually tried hooking him up with someone else. >.>

He's got a cute approach and his secretive way of approaching, hiding those feelings is cute. I only realise this like... many months later. I'm slow. I know. >.<

Anyway, when I realised that something was QUITE different, I began having those disturbing feelings. -Do I like him too?- Lingers in my head all the time. I began feeling awkward and shy when he's around but to avoid him from knowing what I felt then, I pretended to be like who I was before this feelings struck me.

But as we get along time after time, we pretty much show how we felt for each other but NEVER have we EVER said the words. Action speaks louder than words. XD

So... it went on and on, not saying a words about our feelings for about a year until one night, the time was soooo right to reveal how we felt. His beating-around-the-bush was really, really, REALLY taking a long time so I kind of like went straight to the point but I just said something like, -I do have feelings for you too-. But that's about it. I never used the word Love. We don't use the word Love but that word does exist in our hearts.

It just feels funny is the word Love is used. I'm scared of that word. @@

But there was once when we argued so badly, I felt so miserable, not talking to the guy for a few days, and him ignoring me as well, so well... Desperate measure calls. So I sent him a message telling him how miserable it is and I used the word Love. XD So embarrassing. Lol.

^ Just keeping the story short. Heheheh.

[darthbouncy]

I'm a cancer and my bf is scorpio. Honestly, it's kind of tough because he is egotisitcal and not very empathetic. If you're patient and easy going you can make any healthy relationship work.

[fanofozzyosbourne]

Cancer & Scorpio
Two Water signs dominated by sensuality... their sex life is likely to be thrilling! But is that enough? Cancer and Scorpio share a common craving. Both want to settle down; they claim to be monogamous, and instinctively sense the other's emotions. Both are comfortable in the realm of silence. However, Scorpio's rudeness may sometimes cause Cancer to recoil; Cancer's moodiness may be hard for Scorpio to bear. Moreover, Scorpio's overweening selfishness could wilt the strongest Cancerian love. If they endure, their love will be a symphony.

[Maniaka]

yes! im cancer my boyfriend is scorpio... we get along... so well is not even funny!
My dad is scorpio too same story