If im a cancer girl how do i get a capricorn guy to like me?

[moose]

yea..
well were both really shy and hes
new at school. ive talked to him
about three or four times and i
know quite a bit about him..
help?!

[Ashley Kitty??]

saay has it exactly right.

[saaay]

Cancer Woman and a Capricorn Man
A yin-yang combination, rather like mom and apple pie meets the Bank of Canada.

This match will probably not lead to any kind of long-lasting love. There could definitely be a strong physical attraction between you and a Capricorn boy. You need affection, though, and he’s the type of guy who keeps all his emotions inside. You’ll get frustrated with his "loner" attitude and cold, practical way of looking at everything. You approach the world emotionally, with your heart wide open. He prefers to sit back and coolly judge the world, and he dislikes sharing his feelings. He just will not understand you. This is not a good love match for you.

As long as Cancer girl can retain her independence, (and that means not keeping tabs on the object of your desire!) this can be a fantastic Astro-Match. While you and Capricorn boy may be devoted to different interests and activities, it's your mutual respect for each other's effort that will ultimately make this a winning combo.

[auntyalias]

Cancer and Capricorn are on opposite sides of the Zodiac. Just going by Sun sign alone let's see what Sun opposed Sun looks like in a relationship....

"Sun opposition Sun in synastry:

Opposites attract! Although the two of you have many basic differences in your personalities, you are, nevertheless, attracted to each other and intrigued by each other. This is not a lukewarm relationship! It can easily lean towards a love-hate relationship: you love and respect each other when you are able to complement each other, and you hate each other when you fail to understand and appreciate your differences. When disagreements arise, the argument is between your egos. Beware of appearing haughty, judgmental, or self-righteous with each other when really the argument is about differences in basic temperaments. When "ego wars" occur between the two of you, remember that your partner is never going to be what they weren't born to be. Appreciate your basic differences, as you have much potential to complement each other. It is up to the two of you to develop mutual appreciation for your differences rather than antagonize each other."
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_sun_aspects.html

"Sun opposite or square Sun: These two people usually have objectives that are at odds with each other. The result is that there may be clashes of ego, frustration, conflicts and lack of compromise. While the relationship may not be very harmonious, if they do learn to overcome their stubbornness with each other, they can achieve a great deal because this combination has a higher degree of energy than the trine or sextile."
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/sun.html

So would I suggest that a sensitive Cancer girl hook up with a Capricorn guy? Nope. Because in the end it's the Cancer who will end up being hurt.

Cardinal signs are Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn and they should not hook up because they are all wanting to "initiate" some action that are at cross purposes.

Same too with Mutables to Mutables and Fixed to Fixed. Someone ends up crying.

[Starshine]

I'm a cancer girl and my fiance is a capricorn guy, and we've always been a great match! The only problem was, I had to make all the first moves (and I usually hate doing that!) because he was quite shy about it. Once I had asked him out, he said he had been hoping I would, but was too shy to do so! But once we were together, everything was mutual, I think both signs have problems showing their feelings when they don't know what the other person's reaction will be! If you like this guy, then just go for it- that's my advice! Don't waste a few weeks flirting and hoping he'll make the first move like I did!