Former Cancer Patient Mom Beign Abused by her Boyfriend !!!?

[Josh]

my mom is with boyfriend of 3yrs my mom if a former cancer patient and sometimes she gets sick to the point she pukes so today my mom is sick and she fell out of the bed by accident her boyfriend was on the other side knew she fell and he just left her there when i heard she fell i ran in the rom to find her on the floor (no blood) thank god but in pain i helped her back on the bed now that was only just half the story i can't type all of the story but to cut the story short he barks and yells at my mom when she does something wrong he called me a piece of s*it he told my mom that i was going to be a lowlife and end up on the street and that i will be anobody because i don't like sports (what he dosn't know is that i want to be a singer/actor/dancer) my mom is too weak at times to throw him out that is why i am afraid he might take advantage of her and end up killing her so should i get involved i have family they know about it but should i do something ??

[Time Will Tell]

Get some recordings of his bad behaviour. And then show it to the rest of your familly this truly is a familly issue they help you help her. If they won't take it to the cops you should.
Good luck.

[Sue L]

This guy sounds like a "lowlife" to me. If you feel like your mom or you are in danger, or are being abused (phsyical, mental, or emotional) then you need to put a stop to it. You should wait for a time when you can talk to your mom ALONE, make sure he isn't around. Tell her how you are worried for her safety & your own, tell her she deserves to be in a healthy relationship, not with an abuser. Tell her how much she means to you, & how afraid you are that he may do something. Also, get as many people to back you up & stand behind you as you can. Family members, friends of you & your mom's, who you can notify if something ever gets out of hand. I'm sure there are people who love your mom as much as you do & don't want to see her get hurt, or worse. (God Forbid). If you plan on reporting him to authorities or need to get a restraining order, then do it. Just make sure you have some good people in your corner, who can help you guys out if you need it. Maybe you & your mom can make arrangements to stay with other people for a few days, weeks, whatever. Good luck, & God Bless you for wanting to end your mom's pain, she sounds like she's already been through enough. She seems like she has a great son, & I hope you guys have many many more years together.