Why is it so hard for people to grasp that we can't help being born with

[Victoria Sparda]

disabilities? The last question I posted on here, I got a rather rude answer from one person, She said "well if you're healthy enough to have babies and type then why don't you get a job" when the question was not even about income, I have income, that's not the concern, it was what my bank did that was the concern!
Her name was BJ. See, I was born with bi-polor and also have PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) due to the abuse I endured as a child, two things I can not help and meds don't work for everyone. What are some people just so naive and cold, judging someone they don't even know!! Disabled does not always mean physically, goodness, some of the people like that I wish I could force to have to live with the same things I do for a year, maybe then they wouldn't be such @$$es!
Some please tell me, why on earth do people do that, I didn't ask a single thing about income< I asked about the legality of what my bank did. GAH!!!! Why are people like that such morons? Really, I want to know why!!!
miss metro: but that doesn't mean the person with the disabling is at fault.....maybe you misinterpreted the posting...