Tonight I found out I was the OTHER guy?

[downsouth_houston5812]

I had no idea, I met this girl for her B-Day party, and was talking to her man, which I had no Idea of until he told me he was dating her........befor they left she kissed me a couple of times, then text me later saying how akward it was for her, and didn't know he was actually commingShe didn't say anything until I asked her about him, Then said that we need to go out without him being there....she said they had been together since January......How should I take that.........I'm going to ask her to go out again this weekend, but how should I take that.......should I just go with her flow OR ask her about him.......That sht was akward for me too, because she was dancing with him, and I was dancing with her roomate...which she commented about......any thoughts? they would be appreiciatedI've only gone out with her 2 times,its not like this has been a long term thing with her........I just don't know what she is thinkingIt991 your a genius because I was just looking for a lay,and it has happened to me before, so I don't know if I feel for her man at all

[chrisd]

dump her she wasn't honest with you

[AsseT4370]

Um.. shes playing you!!! Find someone else and stop seeing her..

[Evonne6904]

You don't need a girl like this.You should move on. She will bring you nothing but trouble.

[RJ0985]

dump her but make sure you let her boyfriend know what she has been upto with you.

[artsty_gal242]

dump the two timer...she pretty much lied to you, and that shouldn't be an okay thing in any relationship

[lt9915779]

If she did it to him what makes you think she wont do the same thing to you !Leave her alone if you are looking for a honest relationship. Otherwise all she is gonna be good for is a quick lay and even then you might not want the baggage that will come along with it. Also think about how you would feel if someone knowingly did the same to you. Last but not least her boyfriend might not be so easy to get along with if he finds out.

[Jason3430]

Don't let her get away with that crap! She's screwing around with her boyfriend. Any chick who will hook up with you when she has a man is a worthless piece of crap! Even IF you somehow got her to dump him for you, she'd just screw around on YOU next! Get away from her, dude. Nothing good will come from someone like that. Personally, I'd tell her off, and then go tell her man what she's doing! People like that deserve everything they get!

[jenifur7027]

I don't think you should be dating a girl who's already dating another guy. That's unfair to the other guy, and unless you really like this girl and think the relationship you start with her is gonna last... don't do it. It's just going to hurt people for no reason. Also, she's obviously just playing you and using you as a "backup" for when her boyfriend isn't there. Don't let yourself be the "other guy". You deserve better than that. But just don't make any concrete decisions until you've talked to her about it and asked her about her boyfriend. Don't go out with her unless she's willing to break up with her boyfriend because otherwise, you're clearly just a backup.Plus, do you really even wanna go out with a girl who's capable of cheating on her boyfriend? I know I wouldn't want to go out with a guy who's cheated on his girlfriend for me. If he's done it to her, what makes me think he can't do it to me?Oh well... hope that helped >< Sorry for the super long answer...