health and fitness?

[Fiona]

If your boyfriend is bugging you to lose weight, ditch him. There is far more to a person's value than how much or little they weigh. Your weight is none of your boyfriend's business. If all he cares about is how much you weigh, he's a loser.

[?HiS?foreVer?]

im 14 years old, weight is now 112. i am a swimmer and i have swam on a team for the last 2 years, and did an extra season in high school..

i feel like i am gaining alot of weight. i'm worried about my health if i gain any more. my boyfriend even encourages me to be physically fit, and tells me that maybe i should go running to 'get me in shape' for swim season which starts late may.

im not lazy, and i eat ok. not exactly the healthiest i could eat, but oh well. i think my legs are fat [thighs and calves] and that my abs need work.

for my height and weight i seem to be ok, according to the info i've looked up. but should i be more physically active? what can i do to get my boyfriend off my back???