Father demands respect from all six daughters boyfriends. Is he too strict? Should wife divorce him for rules?

[boricua_2290]

Well you know now these days, you can't blame this guy he wants his children to study and he plays no games, it may be a bit too strict but hey now and days you give these kids a little rope and they hang theme selves with it.. I mean they really mess things up and then who pays the consequences PARENTS.. OK so I say if they are happy obedient kids and they still home because some of them are old enough to leave but they still there so it means they are use to their father's rules and they obey him because they know daddy is just trying to protect them no matter what.. Some day when they are ready to leave the nest, they should be productive to their community and hard working women, and their dad would always be there to help them, you know the say "the only man a girl can trust is her daddy" That man knows what he is doing.. God will bless that family...

[michT]

he sounds like a dictator. its nice to want the best for your children as he so clearly does, but he's going overboard, give the girls some credit, im sure they wouldn't dream of doing anything wrong, especially with hitler as there father. do they get to s**t without his permission???

[beentheredonethat0183]

I see nothing wrong with what is going on. He sounds like a great dad. Your daughters will be all the better for it. Sounds like you have a great family. That is my opinion. Look around you. Too bad more families arent doing the same thing, mine included. Thank your lucky stars.

[DanP]

Hurray for father!!! He gets my vote!I understand his reasons and his persistance. One day you will understand. For now, accept it or be unhappy, just follow the rules.If you just cannot stand the rules, find your own place and pay your own bills. While under his roof, follow the rules. If you go to college paid for by father, same rules apply. Live at home and love the attention he gives you. I encourage you to realize his rules are hard for him, too. And he must be the same with each of the daughters, so it is fair to all, although at the last he might be more lienient (as he ages). Be thankful you have a father who cares about you and your life. Way too many daughters have no father who cares enough to have rules. Some daughters have no father to care about them at all.Give your father hugs and kisses to show him you love him for his efforts. Don't forget to squeese tight when giving hugs so he knows you really mean it.

[Needtoknow6182]

Daughters living under his roof must respect his rules whether or not they agree with them. It's his castle, his laws. Daughters are old enough to be out on their own if disagree with fathers rules, and can live their lives as they see fit. Father just wanting what's best for his daughters, and daughters should respect him for that. Too many daughters, these days, don't even know who their fathers are, so when complaining, should keep that thought in mind!