Father demands respect from all six daughters boyfriends. Is he too strict? Should wife divorce him for rules?

[john1122339054]

Father fifty fiveWife45. shapely looks 25Six daughters , ages 18 through 25Father demands daughters show respect in his houseUntil they are married, he says no tight pants, no mini skirts. and no back talkObey their mother because he says so not because young looking mom says soFather supports family by working 10 hours a day six days a weekRULESAll daughters should stay in school including collegeNo boyfriends allowed past his living roomFather must be present and boyfriends must sit in seperate seatsWhen they go to a party, No close dancing allowedFather surprises them often by appearing at the addresses of parties to enforce his rulesNone of his daughters have ever been pregnant and have no Std diseasesYoung looking wife must dance periodically with each perspective boyfriend while questioning their sensual viewsShe reports to him if boyfriends are too sensualFather stops relationships if potential boyfriends are too sensualNo sensual acts til marryAll Daughters love their father for guiding and protecting and supporting them all these years. He laughs and jokes with his children tooHe does the sensual act daily with his wifeThey all are Americans native born

[r0ck_n_r0ll_princess5203]

He could lighten up on the boyfriend thing when it comes to showing up to parties and stuff. But, they're older and they can find ways to be living on their own. But, if they're living with daddy they do need to go by his rules and basically do what he says. They do want to keep out of the cold and eat some too right???

[lucylocket72585508]

NO, it is not too strict, the only thing that is alittle odd is having the wife dance with the boyfriend, what in the world is that supposed to prove? Maybe its the wifes idea, huh? it sounds like he loves his girls and they will be respectable woman that contribute to this world with the same love and repect he raised them to have.....

[swtlilblonde31]

I think that father needs a medal!!!! In this day and age he is molding values and morales that are pretty much lost in our society. His daughters are better for it and will appreciate it one day.My dad was like that when I was growing up and I have so much respect for him even though I thought he was a tyrant when I was growing up.

[BridgetS0573]

If the daughters are ok with dads rules, then there's no problem. If mom wants a divorce over rules everyone else is happy over, then something is wrong with her. Does she want her daughters to be slutty?

[elvlayarvvi2697]

I agree with no tight pants no mini skirts, I agree w/ no boys past living room, disagree w/ mother dancing w/ these boys... that's absurd... there are other ways to find out if that boy would ever cheat... just watch his wandering eyes...should wife divorce this man? no, she just should tell him she won't dance w/ anymore boys...other than that, rules are basically ok...

[BikerChick4109]

RIGHT ON - - too bad there are not more of these types of Dads around - my Dad was strict, and although I hated it then, I am glad he was there and truly cared enough to keep us out of serious trouble.

[MichelleM2735]

wow! can you say strict. but if thats the way they live their lives then its fine. he is just trying to protect them from all that he can. wish someone had protected me when i was younger. the bottom line is that if he is making rules out of love for them and hoping that they will learn respect for themselves as well as others then i think he's a fine father. maybe not so much a dad tho. the only one thats kind of worryingis obey their mother because he says so not because she says so. sounds kind of sexist. but overall hes a good father trying to protect them.

[Franky2Toes]

Simply put-his house his rules-you don't like it you're all old enough to move out on your own, simple solution to that if you think he's to strict. You know how hard that would be on any man having 6 daughters, especially if they were gorgeous. Just try to follow his rules, it would make things so much easier on him believe me. I have a son myself, truthfully I don't want any daughters, not that I don't like women but just the thought of what I would have to go through, so many women get tricked into bullshit fed to them from men, get their hearts broken, crying, I don't want to go through that. Just respect your father, he works 6 days out of the week, 10 hours a day which yes is long and strenuous but I'm sure it's nothing compared to raising 6 daughters, he was a teenage boy at one time believe it or not, he knows what they're after. As far as your mom, you should all listen to her regardless if he told you to or not. As far as his wife divorcing him, she should be glad he's there helping raise his daughters & that he works as hard as he does to support 7 females. All he's asking for is respect, especially from they're boyfriends who have no right what so ever to disrespect him in his house. I dare anyone to disrept me in my own home, it doesn't matter whether its your boyfriends or friends, anyone who's a guest at his home should always be respectful to him and his wife.

[SoulT5607]

This man is trying to keep the eggs in the shell and it isn't a healthy thing...people I'll say adults because all the girls are...they need to experience life for themselves on their own time and in their own way...this isn't living at all it is walking on eggshells and not using ones own wisdom and learning to handle situations on their own....this man needs to get another hobby to focus on...I realize this man loves his family alot and is trying to do what he feels is protecting them but in essence he is robbing them of life....something they will hold against him when they get older....it is like a prison so to speak....he obviously doesn't trust his daughters and is trying to pen them in until he feels they are able to handle life on their own...I personally think they should be living on their own anyways...He can't make up rules for another person he can only live by his rules he set up for himself...as for the wife she feels trapped because the father supports the family and she is in no position to make any decisions....the poor lady I think it is horrible that she is under his thumb too...this isn't a healthy way for the girls to view what it is like to be married or raise a family...more than likely what will happen is one or more of the girls will run away from this commune and do all the things the dad is trying to "protect" them from....I am speaking from experience........