Question about wedding guest etiquette?

[girlneedshelp]

Two of my co-workers are getting married. I am also dating a guy I work with, but we don't really want people to know yet as it's early in the relationship. (Our workplace is gossip intensive) We were both invited to the wedding and both got "and guest" invitations. We don't really want to go "together" but we don't want to go with anyone else. Would it be weird for both of us to attend solo? And if not, how do we handle wanting to dance together and so forth? Thanks!

[Michmax]

You could each bring a friend or go alone. I don think this would be weird if you are not "dating" anyone and a bunch of your coworkers will be there, then its not unusual to go solo.

But if you really dont want anyone to know I wouldnt be dancing together too much or they will talk. You can probably get away with one friendly dance, but anyting after that people will suspect if they are gossipers.

[luvalot76]

Nope go by urself and then surprisingly hook up with each other. Sit together and stuff because u came by urself. That way it will not look like u r 2gethor

[Samantha Leah]

No it wouldnt be weird going solo and just because you guys dont tell them you are dating dont mean co-workers cant dance at the wedding

[Samantha Leah]

No it wouldnt be weird going solo and just because you guys dont tell them you are dating dont mean co-workers cant dance at the wedding

[Melissa]

It wouldn't be odd at all for you both to attend solo, and the bride will be thrilled that she doesn't have to pay for two more people. If you hang together, people will just assume that you're together because neither of you brought a date, but after the night is over, they might start to think that you two might work out as a couple and try to set you up.