Wedding gift question/etiquette?

[lunchbox]

We have a groomsmen that was in our wedding a few months ago that never got us gift (or even a card or any recognition). He's not struggling with money or anything...We were both really good friends with him, then he started getting a little shady..

Now he's engaged and getting married quite quickly. Both my husband and I are a little bitter...should we get him a wedding gift?

What would you do?
I'd just like to point out that we are still friends and we still talk, so it's not like we're holding it against him in real life...I didn't even really think about it until he announced his engagement and wedding.

I'm not terribly shallow. I just think what he did was in poor taste.

thanks for all of the answers so far
As far as the expenses, it was just an $80 tux. He didn't have to travel and the bachelor party was nothing more than a night out at the bar.

This also makes me angry because my girls bought a dress, threw a shower, traveled to the wedding, we went to Vegas for the bachelorette party...and they all got us small (but lovely gifts).

Maybe it's just men.