Real estate etiquette?

[iwastepoints]

My husband and I have been looking at houses with a real estate agent for some time now. We have not yet found what we'd like, and our life situation has changed since we began looking at houses. It's now looking as if we will have to postpone purchasing a home, and we're not sure how to break it to our agent or what the etiquette is when it comes to that?

We still want to buy a home eventually, just not nearly as soon as we'd thought originally. Thanks.
I'm wondering, would it be a nice gesture to get her a gift card to the coffee shop or something? or do we owe her nothing?
Thank you very much :-)

[eskie lover]

I think just being honest with your agent and telling her that you will have to delay your purchase of a home is perfectly polite. Simply call her and explain that your life situation has changes affecting your purchase plans. Yes, a small token of your appreciation for the work she already performed would be a nice gesture.

[A Real Realtor]

Actually, that would be very nice.

It happens alot...don't worry. I have worked with people for months before to find out that they got a job transfer, having a baby, getting a divorce, whatever...it's part of the business and those of us that work it, understand it.

Just assure the agent (if they did a good job for you) that you will call them again...and the BEST gift you can give them is referrals....b/c that is money in their pocket...which is always nice!

I wished all clients were as considerate as you and your husband!

[ladcraig]

We are dealing with a similar situation. We have moved to a new city for my husband's job and our old house is on the market. Since home prices are a whole lot more here than back home, there is no way that we can purchase until the old house sells. I would jot her an e-mail or give her a phone call, whichever you feel more comfortable with, and just state the facts. But remember, they may give you reasons as to why not to postpone. They only make money when they seal the deal. If you like this agent, be honest and say that when your situation changes, you would like to continue working with them. This way it won't sounds as if you are blowing them off. And you'll probably be reminded that you can't work with another buyer's agent until this contract ends. Be strong! I know it must be incredibly awkward. But what is worse, feeling a bit awkward or buying a house to keep from hurting someone's feelings?

[godged]

Just tell your agent the truth. A gift card would be very nice, but even a simple thank you card they can put in their portfolio would be great. The best gift you can give a Realtor is referrals.