everyone in my family hates me?

[sensational_soph]

im serious i want to run away from home. can u guys help me, im so miserable living here
everyone yells at me for no good reason at all and like even if its my sisters fault, they sitll blame me. they all tell me they hate me

[Liz R]

I do not for 1 minute believe your parents would say they hate you,your sister maybe (sibling rivalry) happens all the time.

[jennifer_rojas_cc]

They are taking their own demons out on you because they feel closest to you. Tell them you aren't going to accept their abuse and they should find someone else to take their anger out on. Try to get out of the house, why don't you take a walk or put on some headphones and block out all their crap.

[paige]

ignore them and try to tell them that you dont like that. Dont run away . Here is the reason why you might be homeless. I agree with lil POtato if you have enough money to take care of yourself and are old enough then move out if they are not gonna be nice.

[angela h]

Don't run away. You would be way happier at home and running away wouldn't solve anything. They yell at you because they love you. I know it's hard ,but don't fight back they'll think your wierd and won't bother you. Or you can tell them if they hate you so much why do they keep you or threaten to escape (but dont) just scare em for a bit

[sallymargaret]

Everyone in my family hated me, too. Don't give up. Focus on your future. Get good grades in school. Figure out what you want to do with your life. Get a scholarship and go to college. Older people will help younger people. Get a dream. Envision yourself doing what you want to do, and being acknowledged for it.

Above all things, get a relationship with God/Jesus/Holy Spirit. Read the Bible. Ask wiser, older people. Get involved in some of the older churches. I am Orthodox, and it is a good church. There are other very Christ centered churches. Ask Jesus to help you. He will.

Here's a few "donts". Dont get on drugs. Don't have sex indiscriminately. To thine one self be true.

[GirlwitFantasys]

dont run away, ive felt like running aways plenty of times but it sjust stupid, just find someone that u trust and that your comfortable telling all your feelings to. SOmeone older and that has experiance and will give you good advice. i talk to a friend of mines that is 26, i talk to her everyweeka about my problem and it really helps me. i lluv her to death she eeps my mind clear. find someone that can do the same. also see if you play apart in the yelling or problems..i know that i starts problem too, just because u know its ur fault doesnt mean u have to turn into a saint but u wont hate them as much because u know u start things too. LOL sorry it slong, i hpe i was help and that u understood some of this.

[David Cook 4-ever!!!]

yeah i agree with the first one!!! but sit down and talk. my step sister has the same problem. just talk. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE!!!

[Christy V]

When life hands you lemmons... you gotta say... F-U-C-K that sh*t and throw them right back!!!!

[Joey]

It will get better eventually. Do what you can to get on their good graces. Don't run away. You'll regret not having a family before long and be miserable. It's hard to see it now, but it won't be like this forever.