what should i do if im not loved in the family?

[nina*]

what can i do if i feel that no one in my family cares for me? being the only girl in the house is tough and not being able to talk to anyone about girl like stuff! my dad and my two brothers always take theie anger out on me.. expecialy my dad! when he has a bad day he always says its my fault and makes me feel so bad and he even says rude stuff! like that im a problem to him and that im just in his way of working! i dont know what to do anymore it really hurts! please someone.. give some friendly advice=(on what i can do

[Tara]

The most important thing is to learn how to love your self it's hard to love someone that don't love her self, and it does not mean that everyone will love you but, but as long as you don't lose your self respected and love everyone else who loves you is a plus. and people can only hurt you as much as you allow them to hurt you,