What Should I Do?

[itsjustmechrissy]

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and we have 2 kids. In the past year or so I have noticed that our relationship has fallen apart and we are living like roommates so to speak. Years ago he caught me in an uncomprimising position (there was no affair going on but my boss and I were getting a little too close). We decided to move on with our relationship. Now 6 yrs later I find him in a situation (text messages in his phone from a girl he met and it seems they were getting pretty close). When I confront him about it he goes back to the situation with my boss and it seems as though he never got over that. He also talks about how he gets no attention at home and dealing with this girl made him feel good. Things between us have been so distant I don't have the feelings to show him that affection. We love eachother and we want to be together (we have a great family relationship as far as the kids are concerned) but these issues are tearing us apart. What do we do?

[FrancisH]

in order to have any future both must over come the past & be totally honest. Forgive, communicate , commit & move forward

[BarbS4129]

You have to have trust with each other and you don't. He is already cheating on you with the chick that is contacting him.

[cindy2903]

well staying together for the kids is a crock!! thats an excuse kids adjust trust me why be with someone your not in love with anwyays? mov e on and you will find your doing both of you a favor and as for him bringing up the past thats wrong and you can always tell him 2 wrongs never make a right!! good luck

[Rich2191]

Time to move on@