Socializing as a family with an infant???

[K.C.]

I was invited to a 4th of July BBQ...my dudes friends is throwing it and per my dude we were all invited as a family (me, him, and my daughter) my problem is I feel that his friends really just want to see what I look like since a majority have never seen me...(I don't feel they wanna MEET me but rather just see to get a look)...should I still go


FYI---I have met some of his friends it's just at a gathering some I have never met....
To answer some questions

It's in the newborn baby section because I do have a 7 month old and feel that the only reason I was "invited" was because we have a baby---

Am I fat? Maybe yes maybe no depends on the presepective...I don't think I'm fat what some may call thick or chunky I wear a size 12-14 pants (I have hips, & thighs)...so you tell me