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Old 02-28-2008, 07:03 PM
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my family does not like my husband to be?

I am getting married next week I decided to get married after I finished my study which I finished last week.
I knwo this man for 3 years he is very nice man, I like him as he is. he is not that rich and has not finished his education (uni etc) but he was in uni then left due to family problems out of his hands, he wants to study in future he is very clever knows many languages etc. i love him, but my family see him lower than me cause of education money, work different, which I dont see as problem. I met alot of men before, from various
backgrounds, education, etc but I liked this one, i know he is not that rich but he works he earns some money and he has small flat and he is trying to improve all the times.
i dont care about money or materials, all i want is a loving man to spend my life with. and me and him slowly, will build future step by step.
some of my family agree to our marriage, some dont, two sisters dont agree at all, they hate him, they live close but will not attend
but brothers dont mind and agree, mum agreed, uncle agreed. mum said to me, i am old enough and i am free. she was understanding.
his family respect me and love me, so i am sure hopefully we will be happy. i know marriage has up and down, but i will solve my problems without interfering my family, its my life
i am 28 years old and mature, i work and study.
I am just thinking. am i doing the right thing here, my both sisters who live close will not attend my wedding, but rest of family who agree live too far, so i might be alone with his family and my friends who support me. i just feel sad from my sisters.
any advice is appreciated, thank you
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Old 02-28-2008, 07:07 PM
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I had the same problem when I was going to get married to my husband. My family still don't really like him! But all that matters is you love this man and he loves you. It doesn't matter what your family says or how they feel about him. Your the one who is getting married to this guy not them and your the one who will be living with him not them. Your an adult and you are old enough to make your own decisions. They don't wanna show up to the wedding thats fine. You can do it with or without your family there for your wedding. I have been threw it, my mother threatened not to come to my wedding and told her that it doesn't matter to me cause i am the one marrying this guy not her and if she couldn't handle it i didn't care. I wouldn't let my family talk to me the way they did when it came to my wedding and you shouldn't either. Marry this man he sounds like a wonderful guy and you two love each other so get married and good luck.
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It is YOU who controls your life and who you want to spend it with NOT your family - DO WHAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY
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I say marry him it doesnt matter what the other people think you two love each other so declare that to all the world dont worry about the other people.
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