help...need passages in bible telling a mans responsiblity to his family.son...

[Mary]

...in law wont work...? has not worked in 5 years but claims to be with god

[Miley M]

One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys. Prov 18:9

But the ruler of the synagogue answered with indignation, because Jesus had healed on the Sabbath; and he said to the crowd, “There are six days on which men ought to work; therefore come and be healed on them, and not on the Sabbath day.” Luke 13:14

"..that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you, that you may walk properly toward those who are outside, and that you may lack nothing." 1 Thess 4:11-12

"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat. For we hear that there are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are such we command and exhort through our Lord Jesus Christ that they work in quietness and eat their own bread." 2 Thess 3:10-12

Proverbs 10:26, 12:24, 12:27, 13:4, 15:19, 19:15, 19:24, 20:4, 21:25, 22:13, 26:13-14, 26:16

If he doesn't take notice of these, he obviously doesn't care for God's word and therefore is not a true believer. I'm so sorry that he is not doing what he should be as a husband.