What's wrong with dating a friend of the family and can you wait a year?

[NOYB]

Im dating a friend of my cousin. He is a little bit older than me. We have to keep everything between us a secret at least till im 18. he says he is okay with that. that he can wait a year because he see's potential in our relationship. Dudes, do you think its possible to wait a whole year for a relationship. And whats so wrong with dating a friend of the family.

[ninja warrior]

to me it's awkward and since technically you're a minor he could go to jail. that's why it has to remain a secret. he's breaking the law and knows your family wouldn't approve of this relationship. smarten up girl. you're falling for the oldest trick in the book. older guy, young dumb girl who will believe anything i say. grow up. if you thing nothing's wrong then why are you willing to hide it? that the question you have to ask yourself. and how much older are we talking? and whatever you do don't have sex w/him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! be careful