how will i cope with this family problem?

[Redruby27]

i have recently started dating a new guy,he is tunisian and i am of mostly english background, my parents esrecially my dad are very racist and would only be ok with me dating or being with a english guy,so aside from other relationship probs and other things going on with my parents which make it hard to talk about boyfriends and involve them and want people to be around them with some of the ways they are,i am finding things very hard,the new guy knows this and he said that if we were together longterm my family will never except him and this is true,it is so sad cause i really like him and i feel what if every guy i go out with feels like that,i know i wouldn' like it if i was with a guy and he was in the same situation,up until now people and i have told myself well this is it and you have to deal with it and live your life,i am still living with them and they've never been ok with the foreign boyfriends i've had i've never really told them much and they've never really wanted
to know,as i say everyones relationship is diff with there parents,and i have not been aloud to have them with me around family or bring them home,i feel that even thought i am ready to move out now as i am 27,this will not help in the way that i stilll will have probs with them taking a involvement and knowing the guy,and him being part of the family,and how can you go on like that? he saysa it would be best for me to meet a english guy that i like and they will be ok with it too,even if things are not perfect as they will have all my family probs to put up with and my parents will never be that great at least it will be better,although we are not the best family which explains the lack of togetherness, i find this hard to have to do,when i know that regardless of their predjudices they are just like this towards boyfriends anyway,and yet most of my friends people around me see who they like take them home,involve them with the family and apart froma few moans or dislikes they get on