Have you Pictured a future w/ your long time partner (kids, family) &

[Simpzind4m]

relationship ends? have you been able to see yourself having kids with him or her and future together? They want the same also. Been together for a while and living together (or not living together for some). Then the relationship ends...single again and still desiring that future with that person.

[Sophie D]

I have indeed.
Yet i dont desire that future with the same person.
I desire the future not the person.
Plenty of fish in the sea.

[cierra_black08]

Oh yes...most def!!! It sucks

[for7949]

Of course, then you wake up, protect your heart, and move on. I've done it and is still doing it for 4 years now. He was the love of my life; my soul mate. Or so we thought. Till he cheated on me, got some other woman pregnant. Now I can't say his name or look him in the eye.

[your best friend]

Well this is definately something I think about on a daily basis. My boyfriend and I have something that is amazing. He has never felt it with any of his girlfriends before. I have never felt this about anyone before either. I truley believe that he is my soulmate and we were just made to be together. He thinks the same way. We talk about marriage. And kids. Even our families have just accepted the fact that we are perfect for each other.

But I worry sometimes that what if something happen and we did break up? I get so scared. Because I know he is the one for me and I don't think I could be this happy with anyone else.. I hope and pray everyday that will be one thing I won't have to experience.

[Patrick B]

This happens to a lot of people. Kind of happening to me now. And it's not something bad. It's just that you really wanted it to be that way, but we also know that we don't always get what we want.

[Kristin S]

No, that would be the toughest thing. Right now my current boyfriend and I have talked about our futures together and having kids, and he was first actually to tell me these feelings and he apologized to me because he thought he would scare me away. Thats when I came out and told him all my feelings towards that and we both totally agree. I don't see a future without him in it, he'd be a wonderful loving husband and father. Man, I don't even want to think about what woudl happen if our relationship ended... if that happened, id be of course still desiring that future with that person.
however, i think things happen for a reason...

[John F]

all the time