Do I let my married boyfriend of 8months meet my family? He is estranged...

[1queen3kings]

...fr his wife and living separately.? His wife emailed me, my family and friends when she found pictures and emails of us communicating. She saw that we have taken about 3 vacations and that he tells me he loves me. Some of the pics were even intimate between us. From her email I gather she has hope they will reconcile. He denies any involvement with her other than raising their kids. Do you think she would have said something in the email if they were still intimately involved? When we met he was forth coming with the facts of the separation and that they filed for divorce . I also, followed up with an internet search that proved she did file for divorce 12/2005 and he responded but, neither one followed thru. He says he is not in love w/her BUT, has no plans for divorce. She said in the email I had to stay away fr their kids and he now won't let me meet them. Should he respect her wishes if they have joint custody? If I can't meet his kids should he countinue to interact with mine and go to my family reunion?

[gingygirl]

Yes respect her wishes and No don't introduce him to your kids or family - not until he is divorced.

He can always go back! Tell him to get it done or you are done with him!

[JPA]

Let me get it straight, you're seeing a married man? How low can you be. And further you think that a man who cheats on his wife is a good catch? I think you should move on, before he starts cheating on you.

[Tamiri]

Sounds like a one sided relationship. If he wants of you, he needs to give of himself - and get a divorce!

[†Evonne†]

No. He needs to close one chapter of the book before opening another.
That is adultery.
He needs to get right with God.



-A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that
a man should have to seek Him first to find her.

[Picasso]

If he's never going to divorce her then why stick with him?
And another thing, if he has partial custody of his kids, SHE cannot prevent them from spending time with you and your man, unless your man has some reason to keep them from you?

I'd be asking him wthell is going on.

[Alyssa M]

if u have no morals, u will keep hanging on to another womans husband--leave and find ur own man

[infobucket]

run, girl. maybe considering dating him again if his divorce ever finalizes.