Family Law advice, In PA. WHat do I do???

[gypsydawn1017]

About 3 weeks ago a lady from Allegheny county filed paternity
papers, but heres the story...
The boy was born in 1992, I was 17 when she got pregnant and she
was in her early 20's. SHe did not tell me that the baby could have
been mine, she moved to PA. I live in West Virginia and she did to at
the time. The boy has another mans last name and on his birth
certificate.
I hired a PA lawyer and in the beginning they said that because
it was kept from me I might not have any obligations. well now I will
have to pay support if he is proven mine.
I guess what I need to know if proven as the father,do I have
any rights to what she has taken from me, You can't build a
relationship with your child after so much time has passed. I have 2
children that I am a very involved Dad. If I had been given the
chance I would have for the child in question also.


I would really appriciate any help or advice!?!?!?!?!?!?!?